Creating a Will is one of the most proactive steps you can take for your family, but it is rarely a "one and done" task. Our clients often ask if they should simply list everything they own in their Will to make things easier. Surprisingly, the answer is often no.
In North Carolina, a Will is a powerful tool for directing your personal legacy, yet it is only one piece of a comprehensive estate plan. Understanding what belongs in your Will—and what should be kept out—can save your family months of delays and thousands of dollars in probate costs.
The "Do’s": What Your Will Should Include
Your Last Will and Testament is primarily a set of instructions for the Clerk of Superior Court and your appointed executor. To be legally valid in North Carolina, it must meet specific criteria: you must be at least 18 years old, of sound mind, and sign the document in the presence of two disinterested witnesses.
Essential items to include:
- The Executor: This is the person who will navigate the North Carolina probate process, pay final debts, and distribute your assets.
- Guardianship: If you have minor children or pets, your Will is the place to name the individuals you trust to care for them.
- Personal Property: Your Will is ideal for "tangible" items like jewelry, family heirlooms, or the grand piano you want your niece to inherit.
- Residuary Clause: This "catch-all" covers anything you forgot to list specifically or assets you acquire after the Will is signed.
The "Don'ts": What to Leave Out
A common misconception is that a Will covers everything you own. In reality, certain assets pass to your heirs automatically, and including them in a Will can actually create legal conflicts.
1. Assets with Beneficiary Designations
Accounts such as life insurance, 401(k)s, and IRAs typically have designated beneficiaries on file with the financial institution. In North Carolina, these designations almost always override what is written in your Will. Listing them in your Will can cause confusion and, if the names do not match, potentially spark a dispute.
2. Jointly Owned Property
If you own a home or bank account "with rights of survivorship," the property passes directly to the surviving owner immediately upon your death. It does not pass through your Will or the probate court.
3. Business Succession
While you can bequeath business interests in a Will, it is rarely the most efficient path. Because Wills are public record and must go through probate, a business might sit in "legal limbo" for months while the court validates the document. A separate business succession plan or a trust is often a smoother way to ensure the doors stay open.
4. Provisions for Special Needs
Leaving a direct inheritance to a loved one with special needs in a Will can be a well-intentioned mistake. In North Carolina, a sudden influx of assets could disqualify them from essential government benefits. A Special Needs Trust is the appropriate tool for this, as it allows you to provide for their quality of life without jeopardizing their aid.

Start Your Plan with Confidence
Creating a Will is about providing clarity, ensuring your family has a clear roadmap during a difficult time. Because every family’s asset mix is different, the best way to ensure your plan works as intended is to look at the "big picture" of your estate.
We invite you to learn more about coordinating your Will with your other assets by attending one of our upcoming in-person workshops or online webinars. If you are ready to review your existing plan or start a new one, you can also schedule a free case assessment call today.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Does a Will avoid probate in North Carolina?
No. In fact, a Will is the "ticket" to probate. It must be filed with the Clerk of Court to be validated before any assets can be legally distributed.
2. What happens if I forget to name an executor?
If no executor is named, the Clerk of Court will appoint an "administrator" to handle your estate, often following a priority list established by North Carolina law.
3. Can I use a "Lady Bird" deed instead of a Will for my home?
North Carolina is one of the few states that recognizes "Lady Bird" deeds (enhanced life estate deeds). These allow you to retain control of your home during your life while passing it to a beneficiary at death without going through probate.
4. Does my Will control who gets my 401(k) or Life Insurance?
Generally, no. These accounts pass by contract to the person named on the beneficiary form at the financial institution. Your Will only controls these if you name "my estate" as the beneficiary, which often subjects those funds to unnecessary taxes and creditor claims.
5. What happens if I forget to list an asset in my Will?
This is why a "residuary clause" is vital. This clause acts as a legal net that catches any property not specifically named, ensuring it goes to your chosen primary beneficiary instead of passing through North Carolina’s default intestacy laws.